VIRGINITY is a social construct. Right or Wrong ?

When I was in Heavy Equipment Company, I met a guy who is much older than me (one of my crazy fans admire), once I asked him : "How about if your wife isn't virgin when she marry you ?"
Then he said : "poor husband has a wife isn't virgin anymore".

The variety of answers from my ex's and my friends such as "c'mon I'm also not a virgin, why I shall asked my girlfriend being a virgin". 

And I also have a friend who always asking me "I never see a broken hymen while have sex with my girlfriend, she said because of doing sports ? 
Is it true ? "

For me, to prove that women shouldn't be judge by their virginity. Women's value is more than whether the hymen is still there or not. 😁
This kinda pissed me off, 'coz your worth doesn't decrease just because you are not virgin anymore.
Virginity is a f*cking social construct.
Don't purchased the product if the seal is broken. #bullshit
Women are not product, we value ourself not because of virginity.
Every women have their own perspective about virginity. 
For those who kept it before marriage, that's a personal decisions.

For myself I believe sexuality is a personal journey and a personal need, I want to feel free about myself and enjoy myself without pressure of marriage. 

L.O.V.E is not something you take, It's given.

Think about love for a moment

Love has the power to change lives in incredible ways.

It causes parents to drive to the doctor at one in the midnight.

When love gets a hold of us, we become different people almost overnight - no convincing required.
Our lives change just because we have fallen under the control and influence of love.

But love is such a powerful emotion that it even begins to change the person who is loved - because to be loved is to be changed.

And that's why, to the best of my knowledge, I tell my children every single night that I love them.

Then I thanks to God for giving me another chance to be a mom with two amazing daughters : Parisya Kalyani Maleeka and Khansa Rafani Makaila.

Parisya always be a romantic daughter all the time. She always touch my heart and will be the friend who loved me when I wasn't very lovable.

Khansa always be a lovely girl, she is very adorable, very cute and always cheer up my day.
She doesn't have to say anything but when she kiss me with her silly action feels like I could do anything in this world.

In the end, I've tried and failed many things in life but I will never stop giving 100% at being the best mom I can be.

Can't you tell from the tan that I am a SUMMER GIRL all year long ..

One of my most fave places is the B.E.A.C.H.

I love the water and the sand

The sun seems always be shining

The air smells like salt and sand

The sky looks so pretty over the ocean especially during sunrise and sunsets

To some, It's just water ...

To me, It's where I regain my sanity ...

(Samalona Beach, 23rd August 2018)